Getting scammed in the online dating game is very real. And it's even more so true when it comes to the free online dating sites. More often then not these online scammers will target the daters that are lonely and single. They will usually send them flowers and gifts that they bought with what is probably a stolen credit card. Unfortunately many lonely women fall for these tricks immediately. They believe that they are in love after getting a gift, only because how lonely they felt. When the time comes, the scammer will convince the girl or even girls who are crazy about these 'men' who they think they love and they think loves them, and ask the girls to go them a favor for them. Read more…

When it comes to online dating, I always tell everyone the same thing, it's far beyond safer then actual dating. It is an extremely safe way to date because of the distance that's actually between the two dating. It let's you to not only flip through profiles like as if you're picking from a date vending machine but you are able to judge this person on who they really are, once you start chatting with them, before you judge them on something they would have worn on a date or perhaps their size even. You will learn that you get a much stronger bond with the person when you start online. You will learn that size doesn't matter and nor does looks when you meet online. And once you fall in love with their personality, once you meet they will truly look beautiful to you no matter what they really looked like, and that's when you think 'Wow, how many like her did I turn down or didn't want to get to know only because they were slightly over weight..?' At that point you will feel dumb, but also have a feeling of self satisfaction that here you are in love with one that was like the ones you may have turned down before. That goes to show a few things, don't judge a book by its cover and not to judge someone on first appearances. So meeting online makes people more comfortable and also allows you to pace yourself, take it slow if needed and be selective because of all the choices you have. But honestly, if your first one is great, maybe you should stick with that one and not look for more 'just in case'. Read more…