“Scamming is a dirty job but someone’s gotta do it”. This horrible quote is the rule by which many dating scammers live by. They don’t care about the victims feelings at all. As men have been a growing target to dating scams these days, here are some scams to watch out for. Read more…

Never be late! Always allow yourself enough time to put in that last curl or splash on that last dash of aftershave WITHOUT making yourself late for the date!  Being late for a date is one of the FIRST no no's as it shows that you do not respect the other person's time and is a reflection of how you may be in the future, not to mention sets the date off on the wrong foot as the person sits and waits and the excitement begins to dull. Never be desperate! There is nothing worse then someone at your apron strings.  Never chase someone- persistence can kill!  And, if you find yourself constantly calling, texting or emailing this is DEFINITELY overkill if the other person is not responding.  It is a sign of desperation and to the opposite sex, it is a TURN OFF and won't have you in the arms of the one you are interested in. Never date a mooch! There is nothing worse then paying everywhere you go or constantly taking out your pocket book because the other person needs something.  When the relationship is fresh, don't allow the other person to know how much money you make or how much money you have.  When it comes to sex- well, men can be short sighted at times and you definitely do not want a man that comes on too strong or expects sex too early- this is a terrible sign.  While you may be able to appreciate and be highly attracted to one another on the first date you definitely want to prolong the bedroom scene for a bit ensuring that you really are what he wants...and it does add for a stronger relationship. If the man is persistent, move on. Never lie! Be honest.  There is no reason to exaggerate.  You are on your first date, you got there because he or she is attracted to you- there is no reason to build yourself into something you are not- especially if you want to continue to date the person.  There is nothing worse then being attracted to that great mate just to find out that you were feed a bag full of lies and your outlook on that wonderful shining human being is changed to them now being a dishonest loser. Never come on too strong! Whatever your reason for dating; whether it companionship, sex or to get married, never come on too strong.  If you constantly talk about what you are after it is a turn off...never, never  be stuck on your reasons especially on the first date...you definitely will have the other person feeling as though they are filling the gap. Never play the waiting game! Don't put things on hold.  This means don't sit around and wait for the other person to call or come by.  Keep active.  It is best to not always be available, in fact there is nothing worst then someone sitting around waiting for that special someone to have time for them as they slowly begin to diminish their life.  You want all the fulfillment in your life and the luxury of what the other person can add to it. Never get under the influence! This is a must!  First impressions are VITAL and although you may be having the time of your life sipping those margaritas together, when you get a bit too tipsy or incoherent it is definitely not the magical moments you are hoping to share.  And, never do drugs on your date. Never flirt with others! This is a surefire way to lose the interest of the one sitting right next to you!  Although you may be up on your dating etiquette and think "of course" , if you find yourself "hitting it off" with your date’s friend and being a little too social able then you will be sure to be having an early night. Never have sex on the first night! This is very important and you may need to keep pinching yourself to avoid the animal attraction that you are experiencing.  However, you will thank yourself for it in the long run!  The first date is for getting to know each other, and if you happen to be dating someone whose only intention is sex then you were just used and likely not to hear from them again.  Always, wait!  You definitely will not lose someone by waiting. Never open up too much! There is nothing worse then giving too much away or rambling!  Always keep your personal information private such as your address.  In today's society every type personality comes in every type dressing, so be sure to know the other one before giving out any vital information that could cause you regret for life! Read more…

Here is the second part of the article about second dates. Now we would speak about some of the most important tips for women. You can find Part I here. Advice for the Women -Always relax and just be yourself! Yeah, the first dates always makes both the men and the women nervous but you need to smile, relax and enjoy yourself. Believe it or not but that helps the men more relaxed as well. -You can be interested in what he's talking about, of course you can, but don't interrogate him. Firing off questions one after another might intimidate him to a point, yes women can do that. You need to give him the time needed to express his thoughts and show him that you are infact interested by joining in the conversation at the right times. And please, if you happen to have either a mental or even a physical list of questions you plan on asking all your dates to filter out the men and find the right one ASAP, you need to leave it at home. The dating process is about getting to know someone, not making him apply for a dang job. It WILL scare men away. -The end of the date has come! Now you need to express just how you felt during that date. This means something like you see on shows with the 'you know, I had a really great time with you today' followed by a smile, might even land a kiss, who knows? This lets the guy have a clear signal (which we love) that you be open to a second date and that he did a good job keeping you happy during the date. If you didn't have a good time don't lie to him. You wouldn't want to be lied to I don't think. And Here is Advice for Both the Men and the Woman: -Turn your cell phones off, the ringer anyway. It's annoying when you take calls during a date, unless you told your date you will be having people check up on you during the date (for safety reasons). -If you both didn't agree on it and if it's not a double date, don't bring someone that wasn't expected by your date, such as a friend of relative with you. It's just stupid. -And lastly you need to find out what body language on your first date means. Decode if maybe he has a secret agenda or if he's really into you. Knowledge is power, always. So with this I hope you cute new couples get along even better! Good luck guys and gals! Read more…

A couple might be ready to live and move in together but still a bit uneasy with sharing their entire finances. If you aren’t ready to share financial responsibilities then you probably aren’t ready to live together, but there is no harm in trying out living together and still keeping separate finances. Here are a few tips to see how it can work. Read more…

Dear Yangutu users! We’d like to inform you with a great pleasure, that we continue updating our website. We hope you’ve already enjoyed our speed dating service Face-to-Face on Yangutu. Now it’s high time to release it on our Facebook app. Read more…

It feels like heaven when that amazing relationship starts out. But eventually, some relationships lose their spark and magic when it starts feeling like a routine. If this sounds like your relationship, something must be done about it. If you truly love your partner, then it’s time to revive the stale relationship and bring back the sparkle. Here are a few tips on how you can bring back the excitement and rescue the fading relationship. Read more…

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