Chronic jealousy is often caused by being anxious about love and intimacy, that is, having an anxious-ambivalent style of attachment. Such individuals are constantly worried that their romantic partners do not love them and that their partners will eventually abandon them. But I wouldn't put up with my jealous life partner a jealous always destroys any relationship!

I have a hard time to deal with jealousy. I get jealous when I see a loving couple. I get jealous when a girl sings so beautifully in chorus or a man that is great at playing the violin. Basically, I am jealous of things that I want. It is a constant source of my depressed state. Of course, this is not the kind of jealousy you've asked about, but anyway I do suffer from it!

There are different kinds of jealousy, some of them are destructive, some of the make us improve ourselves and move further. I you are jealous about something other people possess or achieve - just do something and stop moaning!!!

I would not be dealing with jealously. Either you fix you, or see if your current BF or GF will change his flight plan, or find one that are equally clingy. Jealously is a learned trait from a low-self esteem. Humans are not inherently jealous creatures, but can become if the situation is right. It goes hand-and-hand with issues like aggression. The environment they are in makes them, and this is why you are not happy.

I use to be a jealous person. I know the feeling. I would get mad if my friends even looked at my girlfriend weird, or at her boobs. After years of growing up, lost in love, finding myself, right now I have nearly zero jealous reactions. It no longer bothers me when I see the same thing with my wife now. It's a bit more liberating.