The sex addict spends a lot of time in the pursuit of his or her sexual behavior/fantasy or they may have a binge of sexual behaviors.

Sex addiction is an obsessive relationship to sexual thoughts, fantasies or activities that an individual continues to engage in despite adverse consequences. These thoughts, fantasies or activities occupy a disproportionate amount of “psychic space,” resulting in an imbalance in the person’s overall functioning in important areas of life, such as work and marriage. Distress, shame and guilt about the behaviors erode the addict’s already weak self-esteem.

Yes! Even though many of our adult male clients report that their fathers were sex addicts (porn, affairs, prostitutes etc.) they also report getting little to no proper sexual information to balance their sexual perspective. We have created two DVDs addressing healthy sexuality for teens. Born for War teaches young men practical tools to defeat the sexual landmines their generation faces and offers scriptural truths that empower young men to desire successfulness in the war thrust upon them. Princes Take Longer Than Frogs helps single women ages 15-30 successfully navigate through the season of dating and how to distinguish between a Prince and a Frog.

Humm - kind of a tough situation. Well he does exhibit many of the characteristics of a cheating man but then again you can't be certain unless you have proof. We certainly can say he does have a porn addiction that is controlling him to some extent. It is fairly common for men to spend time messing with porn so I wouldn't get too alarmed about that. Do all husbands masterbate? Not all but most probably do to some various degree. The one thing that most cheating men have a tough time is continuing to have a good sex life with their spouse. You said he wants it twice a day from you which usually is not something a cheating man would do. Usually cheating men get very distant from their spouses because of the disinterest or from the guilt. So he either isn't cheating or he doesn't have any guilt.

What to do from here? Well I certainly suggest you don't just sit there and do nothing. You really must learn if he is cheating. The easiest thing to do is go get some spyware for your computer. You can get a keylogger program and a web page logger which you can secretly install in your machine and it will send you an email report of all the keystrokes for that day and also send all the web sites that he visited. I know you can purchase these off the internet for about $50 and in your case that is a worthwhile expense. I am also guessing you could get this from a computer store but not sure. Make sure he doesn't know about these programs as if he figures it out he will change his computer habits. Also you should keep an eye on his cell phone records as most cheaters text or call each other for their hookups.

It’s important for you to know that your partner is not volitionally involved in these behaviors so you can begin to understand and, perhaps, forgive. Most addicts would stop if they could.