It seems most divoce issue is money. one should always know that the mail is the most earner for income and he is responsibl­e for his wife and his children no matter what. In my country mostly men work and the wife take care of the children disiblen them at home and help them with homework and to be the jowel of the house. when the husband comes home from work she is dressed nicely and she looks beautiful. That way the husband is attracted to his wife and love last and last for a long time. In the west when the men or the women is not satisfied with each other they go out of their bond to seek other lovers or what they call affairs. and that is what destroy families and homes.

I have been divorced for 8 years. Shortly after our separation­, my husband turned his back on our son and hasn't seen him more than 4 or 5 times during the first year or two. My son is now 13 years old.

I am a divorced Mum of three because my husband abused us. When I filed for divorce I was pregnant with my youngest. When she was 4 weeks old, he came to the house and beat me severely. I don't get days 'off', he's not allowed any contact with the kids. I think we are better off not having to deal with him.

Actually if you have the guts to do it and want to risk maybe being a tad rude ..... which I think is okay since the questions are rude in the first place ..... I'd look the person straight in the eye, put a surprised expression on my face and say ..." Oh ..... why do you want to know that?" or " Oh. why are you asking?" Then let them deal with the inevitable embarrasse­d silence.

There is no shame in being a single mother. The problem is nowadays too many people are on their second and third divorce. I know someone who has four kids by three different fathers. I know another who is getting divorced after only 6 months of marriage. There should be shame in that. Marriage is sacred and you took a vow. Also all the young adults having children because they made a mistake one drunken night. So many kids are going to grow up without their father in the home and that is a shame.

I have never been married but I am a single mother. So I get a lot of the same questions. For #5, that is a sore spot for me. I still 3 years later, go crazy if I go a long period without seeing my children.