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Online Dating Can Be Tough

To all you men out there that lack the power of female persuasion, here's a little secret I got for you, used by the experts! Women of all kinds, even the drop dead gorgeous type, love being approached by a man that looks confident and interesting, someone they may be interested in knowing. And it's true too, sometimes if you just look like you know what your doing and look like you got tons going on in your head, you will attract more ladies then before. That works out just the same as well for internet dating as well as regular dating. A woman is still a woman whether they are on the internet or not. So make yourself look confident, smart and interesting.
 


Here's a fun fact for you all. There's a lot more men on dating services then there are women. Men are most likely to browse about a lot more as well. It's usually the mans job to make first contact, which seems to just be the natural thing, women like to feel wanted, so if YOU go to her, she will feel wanted. And keep in mind you gotta make sure you keep your profile in check too. If she looks you up after you make contact, you need to make sure you got true, honest information on your profile and that you got a good picture of yourself.

And that does not mean to stick crap on your profile, making yourself out to be something your not, and no don't use a picture of brad pitt or something like that. You need to let them know you are honest, you are serious about this, you can love and care for others and you can be there for them in the end when they need you most. So stay away from those little 'warnings' of how such a bad guy you really are or whatever. Yeah sure that sounds like fun, but in the end a lady wants someone they can be with forever. Things like that you really want to stay away from, the lady doesn't like it! But also you want to stay away from over playing yourself to be a knight in shining armor there to take the woman away. Sometimes life doesn't go as planned and things may not turn out the best, lets say, financially and you two will need to work as a couple to get through those hard times. That's life, so don't speak like you can give her the world, speak as if you can give her your all and your heart. So keep to reality, and stay true and honest, if you do that, you will eventually find your special someone.

And so there you go, if you work on a great profile that really stands out but stays honest and true, chances are females may find their way to YOU instead of you finding yours to them. Give it a shot and good luck!
nov 20, 2011 | Comment (14)

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Mauro, 20 Jun 21, 2010
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Never try to make yourself look perfect. That makes a woman hone down your flaws, trust me. I've been through it before.

Giselle, 28 Jun 21, 2010
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I agree! Even on online dating sites, men should take the initiatives. We girls love being "chased" by men!

Jackie, 36 Jun 21, 2010
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Profiles are important. I bet women take our information with a grain of salt. But, I had a very bad experience from "sticking crap on my profile." Believe me when I say that there is a limit to pretending to be someone else.

Jilly Pattins, 33 Jun 21, 2010
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When the profile shows a perfect man with self-descriptions that are too good to be true... I feel like they are just looking for a short-term thing... and that is just a total turn-off! I want forever thing, not a fake person who is using online dating site as a tool to have an one-night thing! So guys, as the article says, please do not make yourself into something you are not...

Zach, 36 Jun 21, 2010
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Why are there more men when it comes to online dating? Are women too scared to take initiatives to find a partner? Anyway, I find it interesting that there are less women using the sites. I wonder if there is this whole psychological reasons behind that!

Jameslipnitsky, 29 Jun 21, 2010
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I have built an online relationship (due to the distance) with this guy for few months until I met him up face-to-face. I thought he could give me this whole new life (from the chats we had), but when I met him offline, I found out that he was just full of himself. Remember that after all, honesty IS the best policy!

Adam, 31 Dec 29, 2010
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quite good facts, i have noticed when im really confident about grabbing a girls attention i do manage to do it , but when i fumble around she gets bored and moves on.

Rosie, 30 Dec 29, 2010
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just keep your online profile exactly how you are dont try to appear as someone else. Being honest and truthful can really help you guys out esp in the later stages of the relationship

Tanja Moscow, 33 Dec 29, 2010
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what the author has said is quite right, i love to be approached by men all the time, especially the confident types. If a man comes up to me and blunders about, he may seem funny for a while but then he will remain just that, a joke. So gear up and be confident guys

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Shalini, 34 Dec 29, 2010
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Quite agree with you!

Babbit, 36 Dec 29, 2010
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Online is a whole new realm. People dont know how to act over here, but the most important thing that they forget is that a woman is a woman whether online or offline. So dont mess up your online profile, dont send annoying messages around and dont act like a desperado

Johnymillera, 30 Dec 29, 2010
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its pretty hard to imagine what a woman wants to seek online. So the best advice i think for all is to keep the profiles true and not post information that they think others will like.

Alda, 29 Dec 29, 2010
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one thing all must remember is that no matter how beautiful the woman is, you should never let that beauty intimidate you. If you remain bold and approach her well then you may just score! the same case is online, post her a nice message, keep your profile in check , you never know she will reply to you after the first contact and you may hit it off!

Alex, 36 Dec 30, 2010
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:)) Brad any. It is necessary to live easier, leaning against feelings and always and under all circumstances to remain the person without floor definition. The man, the woman - any teenage experiences, instead of article. Read the Russian classics, become beautiful from within. With coming all.

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