If you're having sex drive issues, check your medicine cabinet. Several varieties of prescription medication can dampen desire.

I posted about wanting more sex them my H and wanting to know how to fix it. I have since been kinda talking to people not really about our sex life but just about things that affect men’s sex drive. It turns out that him drinking as much beer as he does affects that quite a bit. So now I have a new problem how to get him to cut down Has any one else had this happen to them??

My 2 cents - someone who enjoys the buzz will not stop drinking and only get resentful over attempts to control his behavior. If you start to control your significant other's substance abuse, you are sicker than they are, that is according to Al-Anon. He will stop when he is ready. You can speed that up by leaving, etc. You can choose what you will do or accept, not what he does.

I'm a guy, I'm a chef, so I work long hours. I love my girl friend sooooo much. I'm probably going through my height in sexual wantingness...sorry don't know the word...she is 19 as well and well she doesn't feel like it as much as I do. She's a chef as well... All the above info taken into consideration I need something safe and effective to lower my libido because we talk and sometimes fight about how I want it so much... I don't want it to ruin the relationship cause I want to marry her 1 day... please I need something... I'm fit and work hard but I cant keep it down!... please some advice

hi i have extra sex drive, looking to reduce it as it affects my studies

I am one of those women men wish for (very attractive with a very high libido)... but be careful what you wish for! I cannot seem to find a suitable male who does not wain with the acceptable amount of sex for me after that 3-6 month initial dating period. My desire remains very high (for a woman - with 2 young children) at 3-4 times a week.

I've been sexually deprived (2-3xs a month for the 20 years of my marriage) and not found a boyfriend who matches me since my husband's death 8 years ago ... yes I'm in my 30ty's and no slowing down ... So how do I slow me down??? The last guy is accusing me of treating him like a prostitute. He likes to be kissed and touched and flondles me but I"m not supposed to want anything out of it! Then once he does want sex (every 2 weeks) ... I get crazy cus then I want it again the next day and the day after, etc. It's like giving a heroine addict heroine just a little once or twice a month and then saying ... sorry no more for you. It's torture.

I am married to a woman that has very low sex drive. I believe that I have done a lot to sexually please her, from great back rubs to extremely good orgasims that make her see double, yet she has said that sex is boring to her. Therefore, my only choice is to either find a girl friend or find a drug that reduces my sex drive.

I'm so very confused, maybe you can help me understand. I'm in a committed relationship with a man I am deeply in love with and have been for two years. I've always had what i thought was a healthy sex drive, but now I'm concerned that it's not healthy. In the beginning we had a very active and passionate sex life, but as time goes by he seems less and less interested. For awhile I think he had sex with me just to keep me happy, and now he just ignores my advances. We've been together long enough that he knows when I'm trying. 90% of the time I'm the one that initiates sex. It's hard for me because I am so very sexually attracted to him, so much so that I have never turned him down. I know that we are not going to have sex several times a day like we did in the beginning, but I don't know why we can't do it several times a week. Most men that i have talked to wish their wives would give it to them half as much.

Sex is one thing that I truly enjoy doing. I have some painful health issues one being Fybro. and having good sex relaxes me, relieves stress, and allows me to sleep through the night which I can't do on my own. He's gained a considerable amount of weight but he has always been a big man, he's always been self conscious of his body. He rarely takes all of his clothes off in front of me. I, don't mind, and I'm always supportive of his physically appearance. I on the other had have not changed a bit. I'm the same size I was when we meet.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He is the most amazing man I have ever met. We have an incredible relationship. We spend a lot of time together, talk about everything going on in our lives, he supportive, caring and protective of me. I held off sex for the first few months and explained to him that it was important to me that we felt that there was potential for a real relationship before we added that part.

I can certainly deal with once a week, but I am often rejected after two weeks of no sex. I have asked him if he is sexually attracted to me. He says he is and that he is just tired or most recently told me that after the last time he was sore for two weeks so he avoided being with me. Was it my initial talk with him that caused this?? I feel like crying over it everyday. I feel unattractive and rejected. Is my sex drive abnormal for a woman? Please help!!