A little Dutch courage might make taking the plunge a touch easier, but a sloppy split becomes all the more sloppy if you’ve had one or two or a few too many. Being high is also, quite obviously, ill advised. It is near guaranteed that breaking up will not go well if you’re giggling uncontrollably, paranoid, jonesing for barbecue chips, or experiencing the symptoms of having used altering chemicals. This goes for her as well; if you know she’s not all there, it’s one of the worst ways to break up with a woman. You want to make sure that you are both of sound mind when you’re breaking the bad news.

I find this article stupid! Who decided to create the guide how to blow off the woman?!! Everything is absolutely individual and there are no universal rules! This is a very delicate topic to discuss actually...

Be honest with her. Tell her that you were wrong in taking your relationship outside of the frined zone into the bedroom, and that you don't feel you can carry on with it any longer, even if she is a great person. You owe her the truth at this point, at least.

First take her to a nice place or your place and say " I dont really feel anything for you.. I hope you uncderstand. There is alot of other men out there that would want someone like you. I would rather just be friends with you. I just dont want to take this any further and hurt you just becuase i dont love you. Friends would be better for me and you"

Tell her it was a mistake for the two of you to get together and although you thought you were interested in her, you are now not so sure. You are sorry for leading her on and want to make sure she finds someone who will treat her right and not just like her for her looks.

Though I find the article useful, I do agree with Catherine that everything is too individual and ine shouldn't take it as a guide to implement it in their life. Feel your woman, see the context and of course be honest and that's it!

Let’s just be clear here. Saying: “It’s not you, it’s me” is ridiculous. You’re breaking up with her. You don’t want to be with her. There’s something (or some things) about her that you just aren’t into. Also, saying: “Let’s be friends” is plain disrespectful. If you’re ditching the situation, you owe her the respect of taking a step back. Leave her alone.

Telling her that it’s over before, during or after a date is the emotional equivalent of an ambush. It’s just not honest. She’ll know immediately that your plans were disingenuous because that’s in fact exactly what they were.

Sure, you’re clear on how you feel, but you’d better be sure she is too. Don’t take it for granted that a brief mention of how things aren’t going terribly well will be accepted as an end to the affair.

When a little boy pesters a little girl, it usually means that he has a thing for her. If, instead of getting straight to the point, you turn pestering into provocation to locate a convenient moment to dissolve the partnership, this is going to be mighty confusing, annoying and angering for her and it's one of the worst ways to break up with a woman.

It’s guaranteed that it’ll be over if she finds out you’ve cheated, but you’ll also be forever known as the bastard she caught cheating...

Again, clarity is the best policy. Yes, if you just quit answering phone calls, texts, e-mails, and your door, she’s bound to get the message, however, she’s also bound to get mighty upset, and you should know this is the worst way to break up with a woman.