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Divorce Can Kill at Same Rate as Smoking!

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all? Er, maybe not. A new study entitled "Divorce and Death" appearing "Psychological Science" shows that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes. Indications that the risk of dying is a full 23 percent higher among divorcées than married people surprised even the researchers, who didn't think life expectancy would be slashed to ages comparable with smokers, heavy drinkers, and the obese.

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Shirley, 33 Jan 13, 2012
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A new study entitled “Divorce and Death” tells you why Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries, or Kathy Perry and Russel Brand, and Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher should be concerned about their health after the study revealed “that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes. “Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all? Er, maybe not.

Peter, 32 Jan 13, 2012
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A new study entitled ‘Divorce and Death’ shows that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes, reported msn.com Jan. 12; while also noting that “the risk of dying is a full 23 percent higher among divorcées than married people surprised even the researchers, who didn't think life expectancy would be slashed to ages comparable with smokers, heavy drinkers, and the obese.”

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Paula, 30 Jan 13, 2012
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” In turn, the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS) recently released a report which found that “43 percent of first marriages end in separation or divorce within 15 years. The study is based on the National Survey of Family Growth.

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Lillian, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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Moreover, NCHS stated that “about 50 percent of first marriages for men under age 45 end in divorce, and between 44 and 52 percent of women’s first marriages end in divorce.

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Terry, 32 Jan 13, 2012
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. “What we’re talking about is a disposable society where tens of millions of people get divorced each year because it’s so easy to ‘trade in for a new model’ that may suit you better when talk of real love is never the final word; but so-called freedom to marry again is why they may want to try again,” explains a Eugene, Oregon, based counselor named Sarah who says she sees “more couples today talking about divorce than ever before.”

Rachel, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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Mention the names of celebrities such as: Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries, or Kathy Perry and Russel Brand, or Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher and the accompanying search word on the Internet is “divorce.”

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Andrea, 30 Jan 13, 2012
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Then watch these stars “re-invent” themselves on the TV and Net talk show circuit, and they may cry about their lost loves, but how quickly they rebound with a new TV for film project that their agents claim will “jump start their careers.”

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Louis, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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As for the common Joe or Mary in America, divorce or “dissolution of marriage,” is a very stressful, with new reports about sudden “strokes, heart attacks or the on-set of cancer” after they decided to become single again; while still having the issues of spousal support, child custody, child support and distribution of property and division of debt to deal with.

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Mark, 35 Jan 13, 2012
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In turn, msn.com reported Jan. 12 that high divorce stats “are certainly newsworthy, but you have to read past the headlines.”

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Kelly, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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Divorce and Death study authors David Sbarra and Paul Nietert are careful to note that the associations between divorce and death "cannot be deemed causal."

Raymond, 33 Jan 13, 2012
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“It's not as if you file your divorce papers and the Grim Reaper gets an email to move you up on his calendar. Rather, the research indicates that "there is something uniquely difficult about remaining separated or divorced that accelerates time of death,” the authors explain, while also noting how “the financial strain of long-term single parenthood or persistent conflict with an ex may be factors, as stress is a known killer.

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Norma, 30 Jan 13, 2012
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Moreover, experts have long acknowledged that interpersonal relationships and health are entangled in a complex way. A spouse's deep-seeded personality trait -- neuroticism, hostility, negavitism -- can be responsible both for killing the marriage and, in the long run, for killing the ex.

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Heather, 32 Jan 13, 2012
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Such traits have all been correlated with illness. Same goes for marriage-stressing psychological conditions such as depression and anxiety.”

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Denise, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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Also, the story reported on msn.com noted how “Ex-husbands are at significantly higher risk of early death than their ex-wives. Why? Because wives help keep their husbands alive. Men generally die younger than women, but wives are de facto healthcare proxies.

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Jason, 33 Jan 13, 2012
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Relationship studies dating back to the 1970s have shown that without a woman around, a man's health fails and he does little about it.

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Bobby, 30 Jan 13, 2012
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Awareness campaigns and technology advances have improved the prognosis; men are more likely to attempt self-diagnosis on the web, and alert systems are available to single shut-ins who have fallen down and can't get up.

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Kelly, 31 Jan 13, 2012
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But these are afterthoughts, whereas companionship builds in prevention. Plus, it's nicer to cozy up to a partner than to a laptop.”

Mark, 35 Jan 13, 2012
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Of course, msn.com also noted how “marriage has its perils as well. Just ask Tiger Woods. Clearly there are health risks associated with being chased down the block by a spouse wielding a Big Bertha.

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Theresa, 32 Jan 13, 2012
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The key isn't just marriage, but a good relationship. The silver lining on the Divorce and Death study is that outcomes vastly improve when a divorcée emerges from a wrecked marriage and finds a new way to be happy.”

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Steve, 32 Jan 13, 2012
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In view of known smoker misbehaviors, including domestic violence (crime), at a higher rate than among nonsmokers, and smokers' disproportionate rate of chronic disease, it is easy to understand why smokers have 53% more divorce than nonsmokers.

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