Divorce Can Kill at Same Rate as Smoking!
Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all? Er, maybe not. A new study entitled "Divorce and Death" appearing "Psychological Science" shows that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes. Indications that the risk of dying is a full 23 percent higher among divorcées than married people surprised even the researchers, who didn't think life expectancy would be slashed to ages comparable with smokers, heavy drinkers, and the obese.
Read more…A new study entitled “Divorce and Death” tells you why Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries, or Kathy Perry and Russel Brand, and Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher should be concerned about their health after the study revealed “that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes. “Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all? Er, maybe not.
A new study entitled ‘Divorce and Death’ shows that broken marriages can kill at the same rate as smoking cigarettes, reported msn.com Jan. 12; while also noting that “the risk of dying is a full 23 percent higher among divorcées than married people surprised even the researchers, who didn't think life expectancy would be slashed to ages comparable with smokers, heavy drinkers, and the obese.”
” In turn, the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS) recently released a report which found that “43 percent of first marriages end in separation or divorce within 15 years. The study is based on the National Survey of Family Growth.
Moreover, NCHS stated that “about 50 percent of first marriages for men under age 45 end in divorce, and between 44 and 52 percent of women’s first marriages end in divorce.
. “What we’re talking about is a disposable society where tens of millions of people get divorced each year because it’s so easy to ‘trade in for a new model’ that may suit you better when talk of real love is never the final word; but so-called freedom to marry again is why they may want to try again,” explains a Eugene, Oregon, based counselor named Sarah who says she sees “more couples today talking about divorce than ever before.”
Mention the names of celebrities such as: Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries, or Kathy Perry and Russel Brand, or Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher and the accompanying search word on the Internet is “divorce.”
Then watch these stars “re-invent” themselves on the TV and Net talk show circuit, and they may cry about their lost loves, but how quickly they rebound with a new TV for film project that their agents claim will “jump start their careers.”
As for the common Joe or Mary in America, divorce or “dissolution of marriage,” is a very stressful, with new reports about sudden “strokes, heart attacks or the on-set of cancer” after they decided to become single again; while still having the issues of spousal support, child custody, child support and distribution of property and division of debt to deal with.
“It's not as if you file your divorce papers and the Grim Reaper gets an email to move you up on his calendar. Rather, the research indicates that "there is something uniquely difficult about remaining separated or divorced that accelerates time of death,” the authors explain, while also noting how “the financial strain of long-term single parenthood or persistent conflict with an ex may be factors, as stress is a known killer.
Moreover, experts have long acknowledged that interpersonal relationships and health are entangled in a complex way. A spouse's deep-seeded personality trait -- neuroticism, hostility, negavitism -- can be responsible both for killing the marriage and, in the long run, for killing the ex.
Such traits have all been correlated with illness. Same goes for marriage-stressing psychological conditions such as depression and anxiety.”
Also, the story reported on msn.com noted how “Ex-husbands are at significantly higher risk of early death than their ex-wives. Why? Because wives help keep their husbands alive. Men generally die younger than women, but wives are de facto healthcare proxies.
Relationship studies dating back to the 1970s have shown that without a woman around, a man's health fails and he does little about it.
Of course, msn.com also noted how “marriage has its perils as well. Just ask Tiger Woods. Clearly there are health risks associated with being chased down the block by a spouse wielding a Big Bertha.
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