Learn how to spot the bad boys and jerks BEFORE they break your heart.

where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex.

women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow,a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."

Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and superiority.)we are strong women, but remember, we're trying to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to show you have room for someone else in your life."

Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal "I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the trick. "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."

To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon rolls about an hour before your date arrives, or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla scented perfume (there's a fabulous one called "Man Magnet

If you can openly say to yourself that you want to find happiness, it doesn’t mean that you are a failure. It means only that you’re a mature and experienced person.

Make your past work on your future. You always get dumped by guys? You think that pain and disappointment are obligatory parts of every relationship? Well, everybody has his own sad story. Make these fears and stereotypes your friends. Let your past teach you a lesson. Describe (write down) the situations when you felt angry, unsatisfied, or hurt. Analyze your recent relationships. If you notice that they have something in common, like jealousy, misunderstanding, or distrust, try to understand why and think about what you can do to avoid these situations. Are you ready to make changes so that you’ll never be in these shoes again? If this step seems too difficult, it may make sense to consult with a psychologist.

Learn by the others’ mistakes. You think you’ve had enough ‘negative’ experience? Even if so, you can’t always see your mistakes clearly through the veil of pain and resentment. It’s easier to learn by listening to stories of your friends, reading memoirs of famous women and stars’ life-stories. Analyze the stories of success and failure. Write down your own opinion: what is the main mistake of the character, what is she right about? Imagine yourself in her shoes – do you think the end would be different? What is most important - you must be sincere when answering these questions. Then you may successfully avoid some mistakes in reality. Wait for a dream to come true.

Study men. Do not surround yourself with only female stuff – hobbies, activities. To be interesting to men, you must know something besides fashion trends or cosmetology. Play on his field. Find out who’s the most promising soccer-player of the season or what’s new in the car industry. Learn by the others mistakes.

Try something new. When you’re happy and open to new impressions, everybody around you notices this. Do something you haven’t done for ages – buy some plants to decorate your window sill or drive to the country to take pictures of the setting sun. Do something you’ve dreamt about – buy a camera and be a reporter, start taking belly-dance or flamenco classes. You can go further and try something extreme – hang-gliding or kayaking. Adrenalin will wake up your energy – that’s what attracts others to you.