Date Night at Home
Clean your house. This is the first time your date will see your home so make sure it is straightened up and cleaned. The condition of your home will say a lot about you to your date. It isn’t important how big or expensive your home is, but how neat you keep it.
Have drinks ready. Wine and beer can set a nice mood to a romantic atmosphere. If you and your date aren’t big drinkers, non alcoholic drinks like soda, water, or juices can also do the trick. Offer your date something to drink as soon as she enters your home.
Make something classic and simple. You don’t need to be a star chef to put together a romantic dinner at home. A simple classic such as chicken parmesan, lasagna, or meat loaf can be perfect selections. They are also easy to make so you don’t have to stress about learning difficult recipes or complex meals. You can always be safe with classic meals instead of making specialty foods since chances are your date will like the classic dishes and might not fancy sushi or spicy Mexican dishes. Also, don’t spend a lot of time cooking while your date has arrived. If you happen to be running late and you find yourself still in the middle of preparing dinner, invite your date to help out.
Set background music. Some jazz or light R&B music will provide a nice atmosphere and take the pressure off of a silent room. Silence can provide awkwardness and make things seem a bit uncomfortable, so some background music can save moments of silence. At the same time, make sure you don’t have any interruptions like roommates or planned phone calls. Let people know you want privacy this evening.
Pick up a movie that your date might like. Dinner after a movie is a nice way to relax after having a full stomach. If you don’t know what types of movies your date likes, try going with a light comedy.
Have some blankets ready. It might not be so cold outside or even inside your home, but cuddling under the same blanket can be very romantic. If you need a helping hand at cuddling under a blanket with your date, try turning down your thermostat to give your date a chill so she will need a blanket that you will have ready ahead of time.
Everything is nice, I adore home dating, but bet this variant won't be appropriate for your first meeting. I'd never agree to spend a night with a men I have never seen before...
a date at home with candles - what can be more remantic??? but of course not with a guy you meet for the first time, if it's not a one night stand lol
I'm for dating at home, not every time of course, but still if everything is prepared in a right way - it can be one of the most romantic dates in your life. There are so many romantic meals that you can serve at home. The best part is that these meals are very affordable. Even if you choose to serve steak, your meal will be cheaper than what you would pay in a fancy restaurant.
I Have never been on a date at home, I think that this variant of spending spare time together is more appropriate for spouses but not for young girls and guys. I'd rather go to a night club than to stay at home with candles and steaks =)
I can't agree with you- sooner or later, you'll get sick and tired of all this noise and crouds of people... Don't you want to spend a quiet evening in a romantic atmosphere with your partner???
Go get one of those prepared meals at your local grocer, have someone watch the baby overnight, dress rather sexy, warm up the prepared meal, have some romantic music and candle light, meet him at the door with his favorite drink, sit at the table and have an appetizer and talk. Then go into the kitchen get the prepared meal and come out wearing nothing but an apron and a smile. The rest they say is up to the two of you. My wife did this for me, we ended spending most of the night naked watching a "chick"flick and cuddling before setting out for any further adventures (wink wink).
If you want to invite a gal for a romantic date to your house - just relax and be a gentleman. act confidently and dont try to be someone your not. Compliment her when she first arrives. put her at ease and you will be more at ease yourself. Ask her about herself but don't get to nosey and sound like your interrigating her. You will do fine.
Romantic movie would also be perfect. What you can do is order some food to eat at home or cook yourself, a girl would really like that too. Hopefully this can help any guy : )
Treat her like a "Queen". Show her that she is your only lady. The only girl in this world that matters to you at this time and very moment. Relax and be yourself. Have good evening and just chill.......things will fall in its place on its own.
My husband and I don't not have alot of money to spend and no babysittr for our two kids but I want do do something romantic and fun for him at home. Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas that I could use?? Thanks :0)
Eat Chinese out of the box, open a old bottle of wine, put on a romantic comedy, and snuggle up under the blankets on the couch. After the movie, head to the bedroom light with candles and put on some mood music like Frank Sinatra's Fly Me To The Moon. Then get intimate slow and sensual style. Sounds oh-so dreamy!
Cooking is great, if not just cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie, playing a game is also a great idea, you could Even incorporate the kids.
personally. if im already into the guy it doesn't bother me.. like if my boyfriend and i had a quiet night at home watching a movie in our trackies and eating macca's id be happy with that.. i don't need fancy restaurant or any of that stuff.. i already like them so they don't need to persuade me into liking them cause they can buy me nice things..
No need to cook, just get some take out from your alls fav. place, but use real dishes. Have some candles lit. You all can talk and eat and maybe share a glass of wine or 2. Then ofter the meal, have a good movie picked out. Go in and snuggle up on the couch or the floor in your PJ's and watch the movie. Then at the end of the movie, if you all make it that long start kissing, then give him a back rub. The rest well you'll know what to do.
You can prepare a light dinner like salad, pasta and a good wine, set in a candlelight table. After that, if you had a fireplace, you can cuddle up in front of it while having coffee and having a good conversation. Or watch a romantic movie with lights off while having popcorn and chocolates. Well, that's just my type of home dates.
If it's warm enough outside, dine al fresco. (Can't hear the kids? Time to break out the old baby monitor.)
Renting a movie can be romantic and private. Turn off the phones and computers, dim the lights, pop some popcorn, and you'll feel like you're in a theater. (Sans obnoxious teenagers and sticky, soda-covered floors.)
Enjoy a cocktail together and indulge in a little adult conversation after hours. (But don't talk about bills or all the cleaning you need to do--It's called happy hour for a reason.)
Play games (get as naughty as you like). May sound a little cheesy, but you'd be surprised how much fun it is to play Gin, Scrabble, or even Monopoly with your partner. Strip Twister, anyone?
As long as you set time aside to focus on each other rather than the day-to-day distractions that tend to take up most of your evenings, date night will be a success. And just think of all that cash you're saving on a babysitter!
Pick up the ingredients you need to create a fabulous meal at the grocery store and then return home and cook it together with your date.
or plan a movie night. Rent a flick that you’ll both enjoy, make popcorn, and get cozy under the blanket on the couch.
good idea or even head to the zoo or museum. Stroll through the exhibits, hold hands, and comment on what you see and learn.
Attend a concert and sing out loud to one another. Rocking out – even if you’re more Beethoven than Bon Jovi – is a great stress reliever.
ake a sculpting or drawing class together. Or go to one of those stores where you can paint pottery. Your art will give your beloved a new window into your personality.
Miniature golf, bowling, pool, or the arcade are always great for some old-fashioned fun and friendly competition.
if you are an adventure lover rent a motor scooter and go for a spin. Think Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck in Roman Holiday!
Flowers are an eternal symbol of romance. Head to the botanical gardens and learn all about them together.
Fill up a picnic basket with goodies – bread, wine, cheese, fruit. Go to the park and share your feast with one another. Don’t forget your picnic blanket.
Act like tourists in your own neighborhood. Go to one of the major sites, take photos, and pretend you’re seeing this place again for the first time.
There’s nothing more romantic than a dinner date a home. Without the distractions of a restaurant, all of the focus can be on you and your date. You’ll find that the conversation will be more comfortable and honest. And of course, women love men who can cook. But when you’re cooking for someone else, it’s like you’re putting on a little show, and the pressure can be a bit nerve-racking.
just follow these “commandments” and recipe suggestions and you’ll be sure to have a romantic and successful dinner date at home.
No matter how excited you are to impress her, it’s kind of creepy to invite her to your house on the first date. She doesn’t yet know whether you’re a serial killer who’s literally planning on having her for dinner. Save it for the third or later date. Also, taking her to a restaurant first will give you an idea of what she likes. Pay attention to what she drinks and eats; it will help you develop your own menu.
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