Are You and Your Date Compatible?
Finding out whether or not you are compatible with your date can be a daunting and challenging task. Here are a few tips to try out to find out if you and your date are hitting it off or not.
1. Play a game with them That doesn’t mean teasing or something like that, I mean really play a game with them. Take them out to a bowling alley, play some air hockey or other arcade games, make sure you are surrounded in a real fun social environment. Notice if they are trying to win at all costs, if they hate losing, or if they are trying to help you to win. The way they play could be signs for how they will handle a disagreement.
2. Take her with you on an errand You have some place to go before a date? Then take her with you. Whether it is picking up a few things at a grocery store or picking up something from the dry cleaners, see how they handle it or even help you out with whatever it is that you are doing.
3. Spend an entire day with them Try to go on an entire day date with them, of course not on the first date, but maybe on a third or fourth date. Go to a day spa or a beach, head to a shopping mall or even go mountain climbing together. Try to see how your date interacts with other people and if both of you can have a fun time spending an entire day together.
4. Go on a small trip Take a road trip somewhere or even a boat ride. Pick a destination and find some activities to do together. Small trips are great ways to bond with your date, even married couples that go on vacations can find a romantic bond. If they are driving, notice how they handle traffic situations. Take notice on how you plan an itinerary together. A lot can be learned from a simple small trip together.
Getting to know someone is fun but finding out if you two are compatible is a whole other story. Try out these tips and suggestions to explore your potential relationship with your date and see if there is a real future between you two.
Do you have any other methods to find out compatibility while dating? Is compatibility something that can be put off or something that should be established right away?
Do you agree that physical intimacy is equally important in a relationship? Apart from emotional compatibility, wavelength matching and brain chemistry syncing ? If you agree, then why society in general blames physical intimacy in a good relationship ?
THough it may sound bold to answer this question by me..but i have my own opinion on this particular subject. we begin to build a truly authentic relationships..but a healthy relationship needs to have a balance. couples enter a space of shared intimacy which often excludes all others and only two of them. All the sweet torture serves as important purpose to trigger a hormone double.and touch and tantalising each other is something can happen only between passionate couples.teasing brain and brimming the body with chemicals boost in love making. Apart from emotional compatibility..physical compatibility is a must for a successful relationship. a perfect wavelength and matching brain chemistry is a must to put each other to edge. The goal is a marathon explosion so with quick fireworks and moves can put a man mind to overdrive. In my view the best couples are those who enjoy their physical intimacy to the core
I believe in needs to be contributed! loving some one for who they are, what they believe in, having chemistry is more important, but i do believe physical intimacy can help a relationship it can spice it up its a way to get close with the person you love and to have a bit of fun and experiment! having a healthy physical intimacy can really contribute to a healthy relatioship :) my boyfriend and i arnt in our relationship for physical intimacy but man is it a bonus! we are in it because we see each other for who we are and how well we really connect and make each other happy and how much we understand each other. i do not blame physical intimacy for relationships failing! its the lack of communication! i know so many people who have one hell of a sex life and are one of the happiest couple going around! everyone has there own opinion.and this is mine
as far as romance goes and love and care. if your truthfully not getting any physical contact, that can sqrew with your mind. i had a buddy who was dating the girl of his dreams and for 6 months nothing ever happend so he left her. because he doesnt feel loved. love isnt just about seeing one another. it is definitely also about wanting to be close and connect with the other person, sexually and mentally. definitely eqaully as important.
Relationship works well when two complete and happy people come together and share, emotionally, intellectually, sexually, and spiritually. The problem is most people are not happy and complete prior to forming relationships and they tend to view the other person as their personal fulfillment center. When we demand the partner meet our perceived needs there will be conflict if they are not met or if we feel our partner is making unfair demands of us. So is it any wonder that sex and money are the two most common issues couples fight about, Such a conflict does not stem in many case from sexual incompatibility as much as a a conflict of expected needs fulfillment, Sex is a leading indicator of the health of a relationship - it is not the relationship but it indicates the strength of the relationship or its weakness
Of course it's just as important, no matter what anyone says. You've got to be attracted to the person both physically and emotionally for it to work. If there's not a physical connection as well as emotional, the relationship doesn't seem very....appealing after a while.
But you need all of it working together. I had a friend who had sex with his wife every day, and I mean EVERY DAY. This went on for two months until she told himt o stop, as she was getting bored. Sex is like a dessert, but if you only eat dessert every day, you are missing out on the whole picture. Everything in moderation and a place for everything
Girls how would you react to this? My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago she said she didn't think we were compatible. She always felt bad that she smoked and drank and had a past with hard drugs and that I don't drink or anything like that she kinda made it seem like she was a bad girl because of it. Well we decided to be friends but we don't talk or text much if we do she starts it when we text she still flirts with me. but I really care about she is the first girl that I met that had a really bad childhood like me which made me feel really close to her. She isn't my first gf but she is the first that I actually wanted to spend time with and what not I miss her a lot...I want to tell her how I feel but I don't want to push her away by seeming desperate if I was to tell her "I really miss you, I care about you and I know you said you don't think were compatible but I want to be with you." if it were you I was talking to would you react negitively to this because I don't want to push her away because id rather have her friendship than nothing
If I was her and I already had broken up with you , then you said that, I would thing you're a total sweetheart and wonder why I had broken up with you in the first place. Especially if she's still flirting with you - that usually means she still really likes you. Either that or she's toying with you and edging you on. Which is really mean. If I was her, I would NOT react negatively to you saying "I really miss you. I care about you and I know you said you don't think we are compatible, but I want to be with you." That's a really sweet.thing to say
Some girls would respond and others would not, like make it a really awkward moment and not respond or they would freak out. It depends what type of person she is... I wouldn't react negatively but she could... I would be calm and talk to you about it... but she might not. It is really hard to tell you. But she could also want you to chase after her, if she's flirting.
I think she would give you another chance since she still flirts with you. She must think you are better than she is. This might be the reason she thinks you are not compatible with her; all her hard knocks that she has. Talk with her and tell her how you feel about her. I think she might reconsider. It could also be that she doesn't want to give up her bad girl addictions and she knows you dont do the things she likes to do. I myself would give you another chance and see if I could change my bad habits just to be with someone that could and would care about me as you say you do about her. Good Luck! Talk with her honestly. Hope she gives you another chance!
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