Say "I Love You" Not just on a trip or a special occasion. But every day. No matter how busy you are, there's always time to send an email or pick up a phone to say "I love you" if you're not in one another's presence. If you are fortunate enough to be together, stop what you're doing once in a while, look your lover in the eye, smile, and tell him or her what's in your heart. It doesn't cost a thing, yet it's the best way I know to keep romance alive.

Dream Up a Hot Vacation Get out of your cold-weather rut by fantasizing about a sexy European getaway with your guy.

Create Mood Music Sunday nights can leave you and your man with a sinking feeling about the upcoming workweek. But why ruin those last hours of freedom when they could be romantic?

Have a Sexy Sleepover Sometime this week, e-mail your guy, and tell him to reserve Friday night but not to worry about coming up with a date idea — you’ll plan everything.

Spice things up. Surprise him (and maybe yourself) by doing something out of the ordinary: Invest in some sex toys or crank up the passion with something sweet (chocolate syrup anyone?). Or try a new position.